Welcome to my kinky spot on the web. I'm newish to Sudbury but not new to the lifestyle. I've been fortunate enough to explore many of my kinks and vanilla just isn't for me. This is something I discovered years ago. Originally from Kingston, I moved up to Sudbury 3.5 years ago. Being an outdoorsy kind of guy, I just love it here. Canoeing, hiking, Nordic skiing, camping and exploring are just a few of my favorite activities; outside of the bedroom that is. I'm the normal, sane... "next door" type of guy. Mellow, easy going and strive to remain drama free...and yes I do have a job and I drive...lol With that being said thou, once that bedroom door closes, the contradictions begin... The devil will take off it's cloak and spreads it's wings... the wolf will shed it's sheep's skin.. I will push you to the edge and hold you there...tip you and then pull you back...Ask for it and you will definitely recieve.... but be very careful in what you ask for. I can be loving, caring and nurturing but also sadistic and evil and cruel...almost all in the same breath. I can bring a smile to your face just as easily as tears to your eyes. I will study you... I will learn you... I will read you... I will anticipate your every next step.... I will hold you on that edge by your throat... But when all is said and done...you will always feel safe, when in my arms.... Owned, cared for and protected.... You will be mine.... Only to use as I please... I'm an open book, brutally honest and upfront...life is too short to beat around the bush. Either you like me or you don't...I personally don't have time for plastic, fake people pretending to be someone they aren't. I can clean up well and enjoy the opera or dress down and redneck with the best of them....like I say...contradictions.. I'm intelligent ...not just educated. There are far to many educated stupid humans walking around. I'm humorous and witty with a big dash of sarcasm thrown in. Well that's enough about me for now...feel free to contact me should you dare to know more....but as I stated before, be very careful what you wish for... evil grin... Althought for the most part I identify as a Dom, I have occasionally switched in the past. Very occasionally and when the right dynamics were present...feel free to ask "I'm actively seeking a long term committed relationship with an emotionally available submissive. Although based in Sudbury I work in the transportation sector and regularly travel south down thru the GTA daily. At this point in my life nothing is holding me back from relocation. If you think we could be a good match after reading my profile, please don't be shy and reach out Mindfkd (You can also find me over at Fetlife with the same user name, and no need to pay for a membership, lmao)