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Men need to learn when enough is enough 20/4/2004
Its one thing to have a sexual relationship with a third
person in a marraige, but it is completely another to cheat
on your wife. It is utterly stupid when you have everything
you could ever want in a woman and a sexual relationship.
A woman to fulfills your fantasies with you. I think it was
a mistake to be a good wife, a best friend, totally open and
honest with a person who is going to ...
0 Comentários, 26 Visualizações,
30 Votos
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girls this is what you need to know 19/4/2004
Hi if your chating or emailing with someone and then stop
without at least emailing it is very hurtfull we guys like
to feel wanted same as you. If you decide to break it off then
tell us just because there are some assholes out there dosnt
mean you cant say goodbuy besides if you read the next email
from that person it will tell you what there really like
0 Comentários, 8 Visualizações,
37 Votos
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It's quite simple... 14/4/2004
If you're chatting someone up online and giving it
all the charm than expect them to be already expectant of
a good time...
However if you use your brains and keep a respectful distance/don't
cyber and say you want to meet as friends only at first saying
"No" shouldn't be a problem
0 Comentários, 12 Visualizações,
16 Votos
,2.69 Pontuação
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the real reason 13/4/2004
Everyone is wondering why people do not reply saying "no
thanks." The main reason is because most people are
regular members and cannot send messages. They get one
reply a day, and dont want to waste it on a "no thanks."
Sure there are plenty of people who can send emails and choose
not to, but this is the main reason.
0 Comentários, 15 Visualizações,
16 Votos
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people who send you an email then don't repl to your reply 7/4/2004
this site is about finding people looking for sex is it not.
if you just want to talk or date their are lots of site like
that online! so women put an add on here to just see how many
guys hit on them kind of a ego thing yes guys like the women
on here but if you put an ad on here you should be true and reply
to those who reply to your ad. and if you send a guy a email
saying your ...
0 Comentários, 14 Visualizações,
39 Votos
,8.20 Pontuação
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SEX 7/4/2004
IM A GUY AND I HAVE A VERY HARD TIME TURNING DOWN SEX. THE ONLY
WAY THAT I WOULD TURN DOWN ANY KINDA OF SEX IS IF I CAN SMELL
HER STINKEN PUSSY OVER A BARBEQUE GRILL.
0 Comentários, 4 Visualizações,
46 Votos
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why can't you women just say no thanx..... 6/4/2004
when i have taken the time to read your advert..think about
what you've said and then taken the time to respond
with a polite response answering any qeustions you have
posed
....can't you at least have the decency to reply.even
if it's a no thank you! maybe Trair.Net could think of a "no
wink" or something.but i know i have been caught out..i
waited for a response from one lady...and ...
0 Comentários, 2 Visualizações,
34 Votos
,5.49 Pontuação
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Why are so many people rude? 6/4/2004
Can someone give me some insight?
I add people to my hotlist, I send invitations to join my
friends network, I let people know that i have pics in my
friends section, I contact people by the email and winks.
Out of the 43 people I have taken an interest in only 1 bothered
to deny my invite, 3 accepted, and the rest just blow me off.
I know they have been online and gotten the invite or ...
0 Comentários, 14 Visualizações,
26 Votos
,6.80 Pontuação
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how to say no thanks 1/4/2004
If someone shows interest in you and you are not interested....Please
at least email them back to say so. They did take the time
to send you an email afterall. I know everyone on here doesn't
always get a response from everybody they email. Doesn't
it make you wonder if they even heard from you?? Soo...the
next time someone takes the time to show some interest in
you but you aren't ...
0 Comentários, 35 Visualizações,
20 Votos
,5.17 Pontuação
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re: when the picture doesn't match the face 1/4/2004
Well, if you meet someone who sent you a picture of themselves
as they appeared more than 4 years ago, and they now look
very different (much larger, bald, much older, whatever)
you are dealing with someone who is not realistic in their
approach to others. Not a liar, just someone who probably
in their own mind doesn't realize they have changed
that much. It happens. If you're not ...
0 Comentários, 19 Visualizações,
26 Votos
,7.34 Pontuação
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wondering what you would do? 31/3/2004
We recently received a message from a couple asking if we
would like to get together. They were not our type, were
not close tour age group, and not to be rude but, they were
not attractive to us either.
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So we responded with: "Although we are not interested,
thank you for taking the time to read our profile and sending
us your message."
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The next day we ...
0 Comentários, 6 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,5.56 Pontuação
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WHY can't some people understand when you tell them not interested 31/3/2004
We don't understand why some people continue to write
and ask the same thing over and over after you tell them politely
that you don't think you are compatible, are to far, not
what you are looking for...etc.We try to be as polite as
we can and some people have written us up to 5 or 6 times.Is
anyone else having a problem with this.If so let us know, so
that we don't think we are replying ...
0 Comentários, 55 Visualizações,
9 Votos
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Who cares 25/3/2004
You people shouldn't take it so personally when you
don't get a response back. If you don't get a response
back withing 72 hours, forget that person because they
are either not interested in you or something happened
that they cannot answer you. Really, it's not that
big a deal. Stop wasting your precious time harping on someone
who doesn't care what you think/feel or say and move
on to ...
0 Comentários, 15 Visualizações,
20 Votos
,4.40 Pontuação
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Just state the facts..... 24/3/2004
Whne T and i <her> get a mail, or whatever from an unwanted, ,
married "single" guy , we @ least return a reply.
If it even say thanx, but no thanx, or Im not into what your
into, its nice to hear something back. Dont leave open air
out there, It makes this WHOLE thing pointless for those
of us searching for REAL PEOPLE. Remember, a bad reply is
better then no reply.
0 Comentários, 3 Visualizações,
8 Votos
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RE: Why can't people learn to take "no" for an answer?? 18/3/2004
I can't speak for everyone, but sometimes you read
a profile, and everything is a perfect match, but then they
say no for no apparent reason. Sometimes you just can't
help but wonder why...
0 Comentários, 80 Visualizações,
75 Votos
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Why be ignorant? 17/3/2004
I was going through the lsit of people online today, trying
to find a feamle who might be interested in some cyber fun
to pass the time. It's winter, and many people are on
the Trair.Net site just to pass some time and have some fun. I paged
a few people in instant messaging, and when someone finally
responded, I immediately and very politely asked if they
"had a few minutes, " then asked if ...
0 Comentários, 25 Visualizações,
17 Votos
,6.52 Pontuação
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Read the profile please! 16/3/2004
Is it me or is my profile so very difficult to read? I'm
not interested in older men or women. Women or men that are
even close to my parents' ages is just a general turn
OFF. I'm not trying to be offensive, just honest. So
if you read a profile and it has an age limit, respect that.
I try to respect everyone on this site, I expect to be respected
in return.
0 Comentários, 14 Visualizações,
2 Votos
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That Damn Skunk 15/3/2004
This isn't for the women saying no thanks as it's
for the ones who does understand "NO". Now I
respect a woman with the courage to say no but some men take
it the wrong way and bad shit happens. I've learned
our culture has an important role in our upbringing and
what comes to my mind is "that damn skunk"! PePe
is his name and for years young impressionable minds have
watched this ...
0 Comentários, 14 Visualizações,
1 Votos
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Just be honest, but polite 15/3/2004
The best thing to do when saying "No Thanks"
is to be honest. Tell the person that you are not interested.
Be nice about it, but be honest. You don't have to give
a lot of details, just say "Thanks, but you are not
interested." If they write back you can always block
them. That way you don't get into a back and forth email
war.
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Enough already 7/3/2004
Enough Already
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When we ladies are at the swingers clubs and politely say
"no thanks" It doesn't mean we are bitches...simply
that your not our type...or maybe were just not in the mood.
Try not to take it personal!!
0 Comentários, 1 Visualizações,
34 Votos
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Have a little courtesy please! 6/3/2004
Don't you hate it when you wink, get one back, but then
never get a response from the other party after senging
messages?
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If all you want is to look at pictures on the profiles, fine.
At least let the other parties know that's all you want.
If not interested, at least have the courtesy to say "No
thanks". No hard feelings, but at least respond.
For some of us, this is a ...
0 Comentários, 2 Visualizações,
15 Votos
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Reply to "NO THANKS" 5/3/2004
Fairly new here, but already noticed severe lack of "No
Thanks", or any other response to attempted contacts.
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Common courtesy is a lost art.
0 Comentários, 1 Visualizações,
29 Votos
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have a little common sense 2/3/2004
The main thing I get when a guy contacts me is "call
my cell" or "give me your phone number."
If I wanted to induce a conversation via phone, I'll
call my mother. If you really want us ladies to reply, try
actually saying something when you send us messages. I
automatically delete anyone who only says "contact
me for sex at xxx-xxx-xxxx." This may be an adult meeting
site, but it's not a ...
0 Comentários, 5 Visualizações,
51 Votos
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Spring Break 2004, the guest 1/3/2004
(Continued)
As the elevator started to move, I noticed that he had noticed
my swimsuit sticking out beneath the towel that I had wrapped
around it. Smiling at him, I watched as he examined me closer,
taking note of my erect nipples and full breasts straining
against the slightly wet robe that I had around me. Hearing
the elevator ding again, I watched as the door opened behind
him. ...
0 Comentários, 76 Visualizações,
30 Votos
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Sick of lil teens being used. 28/2/2004
Hey i know alot of girls growing up and im only 22 now and i
have heard at least 5 or 6 times where they were basiclly
by an older guy about my age. I hate that i cant stand
it. If a woman says no even in a small faint no.... she deserves
the respect for you to back up a minute and talk about whats
going on, instead of her. They try and play it off
as not but it is. She might say ...
0 Comentários, 20 Visualizações,
43 Votos
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Did you not read my profile??? 27/2/2004
OK let me make this clear...I am not tryin to be rude by stating
what type of guy I am interested in. I personally simply
choose to date, sleep, or talk to a certain race of men. It
doesn't mean I have limited myself. Also, when I say
I want dealings with someone my age, I'm sorry if your
30 years older...that's not my fault. Take that up
with your mom and dad. I will respond to all ...
1 Comentários, 45 Visualizações,
43 Votos
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How do you say no thanks?? 25/2/2004
How do you tell someone who has emailed you about getting
together no thanks without hurting there feelings? I mean
say you chat a while and you meet and decide no this isn't
what I want.
0 Comentários, 5 Visualizações,
8 Votos
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Dont do it 21/2/2004
I see and understand the point all you ladies make about
not being able to respond to all the emails you get from us
guys, as I know there are many more guys on this site than
ladies. And I will agree with you that you are probably getting
many emails from guys that are not a match to you, hundreds
or even thousands of miles away, or are not at all what you
are looking for. Maybe I am an ...
0 Comentários, 36 Visualizações,
43 Votos
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RUDE GIRLS RESPONSE 21/2/2004
my first day on Trair.Net i recieved an email from a very scarey
subhuman. he lives close by. he is subliterate. it scared
me badly. i immediately blocked all further emails, but
i was shaken. guys be careful what you say to the girls, start
slowly, some of us have had bad experiences. in real life
we are always on display, it can be fun, it can be a drag; if
a situation gets out of hand we deal ...
0 Comentários, 5 Visualizações,
47 Votos
,8.45 Pontuação
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Let someone know.... 16/2/2004
I only have a few complaints about the people on this site,
and I hope that it is a small percent of people on here that
I speak of. I get a little anoyed by the people who say that
they are looking for something and then when someone takes
the time to write to them they never reply back even if ti
is to say no thanks, please have some consideration for
the other people who take the time ...
0 Comentários, 1 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,3.25 Pontuação
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