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What to do... 28/10/2008
Question for both sexes...
What to do when the opposite sex wants to meet for a sexual
encounter but you are not into the physical for whatever
reason.
Things to consider?
Am I a jerk for not wanting too...
Your thoughts?
3 Comentários, 90 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,4.17 Pontuação
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Just saying No thanks 8/10/2008
I have been invited to have an unmeaningful relationship
with a beautiful lady once a week. I actually was wanting
a little more than unmeaningful so I had to tell her no thanks.
She has hassled me about it and I finally had to ignore her.
3 Comentários, 130 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,2.86 Pontuação
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swapping partner for a ! 6/10/2008
We recently had chat with 1 gut who was up to arrange a swap.
However, as the conversation panned out, it turned out
the person he was gonna bring was in fact gonna be a .
How could he expect us to agree to this exchange? His emotional
connection with this female was totally non-existant,
wheras me ands my partner have been together over 10 years.
Sometimes, the politeness of the answer should be ...
4 Comentários, 161 Visualizações,
12 Votos
,6.16 Pontuação
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If Someone says "Thank you but I am not interested".. 26/9/2008
Or one of those others pleasant let you down easy one liners,
why do you feel the need to counter the statement with "Why?"
or some other pestering comment or rude comment?
Would these replies honestly make the person reconsider
the rejecting reply that they initially sent?
If you got one of those responses, would you take the reply
as a hit and then move on or if you like what ...
18 Comentários, 256 Visualizações,
17 Votos
,3.83 Pontuação
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YOU SUSPECT A STD 31/8/2008
You meet someone online. You meet in person and like one
another. You decide to have sex. You're both naked.
Then you see it. A bump, blister, redness, or something
else that you think could be a std. But you may be wrong. It
might be nothing. The other person might not be aware of
it. How do you stop without hurting the other persons feelings?What
is the polite way to handle this situation?
2 Comentários, 155 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,3.71 Pontuação
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how do i tell someone no thanks 18/8/2008
well it starts with a guy that has been trying to get with
me forever and im just not intersted in him im try to hint
it but how do i tell him no thanks without being mean
5 Comentários, 88 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,3.43 Pontuação
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repeats 6/8/2008
how can you nicely say I DONT WANT YOU, after you ignore and
tewll them they are not your type
7 Comentários, 130 Visualizações,
9 Votos
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Not an easy thing 29/7/2008
Guess it depends on how warm/cold
a person you are to how difficult you find this.
We are very tactful and warm people
so find it quite difficult. We can make our minds up pretty
quick to whether or not we are interested. Will tell you
now we definately aint interested in people without pix
on their profile as it shows ...
1 Comentários, 44 Visualizações,
5 Votos
,4.12 Pontuação
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kissing on first date 25/7/2008
MOst women will give a kiss the first date.Some even hand
the kat over.My thing is with all the variables, do ladies
chosse right off the bat who can hit it?Or the guy has to change
her mind overtime?
3 Comentários, 73 Visualizações,
1 Votos
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Is it wrong to just say no? 7/7/2008
Despite what Nancy Reagan may have started with that expression,
I don't mean drugs. I'm talking about oral sex.
To be frank, I've never really been one for the cunnilingus
or the blow jobs, to be honest. I've always found it
be at best, impersonal and at worst, dangerous. Stay with
me on this one.
I agree that oral is a valid point of foreplay (something
I have often enjoyed over ...
5 Comentários, 76 Visualizações,
10 Votos
,2.99 Pontuação
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just say it 5/7/2008
after chatting with someone and you find that your really
not interested. Just say "no thanks" don't
just ignore the person, that is really cruel.
7 Comentários, 48 Visualizações,
2 Votos
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why is it so hard 5/7/2008
I have found that many people will just ignore you instead
of just saying I am not interested. Why? I wouldn't
do that to anyone, so, lets just have some common manners.
1 Comentários, 16 Visualizações,
2 Votos
,1.73 Pontuação
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It sucks when it happens to you 5/7/2008
Married? No thanks. No offense, but if you're not being
satisfied by your man, then leave him, but don't go
looking for some side fun. My first wife cheated on me, and
knowing what it feels like, no matter how hot she is, if she's
married, I'm the one that has to sleep with my conscience
at night. I know there are people who disagree with me, though.
Your thoughts?
1 Comentários, 61 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,4.64 Pontuação
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is it too much to expect an actual rejection when getting rejected? 25/6/2008
Is it just me or do people who reject you via ignoring you
just piss you off.. at least tell me to go fuck off.. I recently
met up with a woman I met on here.. drove about an hour to meet
up with her.. brought a friend for her roomate.. shared
photos and talked on the phone for days.. could tell within
the first five minutes she didnt want me there.. she eventually
went to bed about an hour into ...
2 Comentários, 85 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,5.39 Pontuação
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Lets be adults 28/5/2008
Most people ( men especially ) are too cowardly on this front
and will bumble around making until the other person gets
upset and annoyed.Be honest and upfront, we are all adults
on here and should be able to take the rejection by now ;O
0 Comentários, 52 Visualizações,
5 Votos
,2.82 Pontuação
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"No thanks" 26/5/2008
5/25/09 Most people appreciate when you're being
upfront with them. If it's "Sorry, I'm not
interested." "No thanks." It's
all the same, people on this site, and in general have been
around enough, that they should be able totake no as no,
and keep on going.
4 Comentários, 72 Visualizações,
1 Votos
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"I didn't want to hurt him" 22/5/2008
I don't understand why women blow off men because they
"don't want to hurt them". I've seen
this happen many times with friends (male and female),
and to myself as well. A guy will ask a girl out, she's
not interested but she doesn't want to reject him so
she says yes, even gives out her phone #, with no intention
of ever going out on a date with the guy. If you're not
interested, just say so! ...
2 Comentários, 58 Visualizações,
11 Votos
,4.66 Pontuação
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Working in a bar 1/5/2008
Working in a bar is definately a great thing, i believe everybody
would agree. Free drinks, great girls around you and of
course the sex. Yet, it is not always a sexy girl that is trying
to get you. Then what do one do? Just gets drunk enough? Or
runs away? Saying no can be a challenge...it is not really
pleasant, you know. We all have been there- been said "No
thanks" in one way or another. More ...
3 Comentários, 96 Visualizações,
12 Votos
,2.80 Pontuação
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Do men find it hard to say "no"? 1/5/2008
When my man is propositioned he says that he feels like he's
being really rude by saying "No" to girls. He
even thinks that he's being rude by saying "No
thanks" to strippers when we're in a lap dancing
club; you get some right wrongens stripping these days
and it seems they know that men find it hard to say 'no'
too; why else would they push themselves so hard onto punters?
I always see ...
6 Comentários, 90 Visualizações,
9 Votos
,3.64 Pontuação
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No means no 21/4/2008
Well you just have to speak up ur mind. No means no. That simple.
The more you are indecisive about it the more you will regret
it.
8 Comentários, 338 Visualizações,
12 Votos
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Lets just face the fact 13/4/2008
Being all "adults" here at this site, it seems
to me that we could use a Little common courtesy. Its ok to
let someone know if your not interested, "thanks,
but no thanks". I don't think there's anything
wrong with that. Its not hard to understand, its our que
to move on. And move on we should. Rejection is a part of being
on this site. Lets just face that fact and go on and still
have fun.
7 Comentários, 120 Visualizações,
15 Votos
,3.74 Pontuação
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Telling Someone You Meet Sorry You Misrepresented 10/4/2008
I met someone through Trair.Net about 4 months ago and she was nothing
what she described. I had already booked the hotel room
for us to spend the night but when she arrived I just wanted
to run. I told her I needed to run out and get some drinks but
I never came back. She still called and wanted to meet again.
How do you tell someone sorry you are nothing close to what
I was looking for and still ...
8 Comentários, 390 Visualizações,
19 Votos
,4.71 Pontuação
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How do you do it 4/4/2008
Met a lady online-seemed great-got to know her very well
via email, shared pics (she loooks good)started talking
on phone, etc but her voice absolutely kills me-its awful...how
do artfully back away and not hurt her feelings to much?
4 Comentários, 68 Visualizações,
5 Votos
,3.80 Pontuação
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Why are some people so mean? 31/3/2008
I don't understand why some find it necessary to write
so cruelly when one says a polite "No thank you."
After responding rather than ignoring their communications,
and doing so in a polite and tactful way, I have encountered
such meaness in spirit that it makes me shake my head in disbelief.
Why?
14 Comentários, 209 Visualizações,
14 Votos
,5.38 Pontuação
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fisting 27/3/2008
do many women like fisting
3 Comentários, 141 Visualizações,
7 Votos
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putting yourself in their shoe 16/3/2008
I always have a hard time with saying no too, then i start
thinking what if things were the other way around. If i was
the one who was extremely attracted to the girl and you absolutely
want to know what the hell does she think of you. you soon realize, that yes you might hurt her now but in the
long run it would be better than not hearing the truth.
0 Comentários, 14 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,5.19 Pontuação
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Unsure 25/2/2008
I have a male friend and hes is constantly flirting or making
comments that are suggestful. I usually laugh it off or
joke back with him but after knowing him for two months im
starting to think he might be serious. Any advice? Or maybe
I should ask him outright if he actually has feelings for
me?
3 Comentários, 140 Visualizações,
5 Votos
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I'm not fond of smokers 23/2/2008
Peer pressure can often be quite subtle -- something as
simple as a passing suggestion or a visual cue is sometimes
all need to feel pressure to experiment with negative
behaviors. Meeting, and then resisting the challenges
posed by peer pressure takes courage and skill. By spending
time with your and teaching them the different
types of refusal lines they can use, they can decide which
one ...
0 Comentários, 17 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,2.45 Pontuação
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Letting her down easy. 18/2/2008
I'm curious to know when your not interested in a someone, what's
the best way to say it, so you don't hurt her feelings?
4 Comentários, 42 Visualizações,
2 Votos
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no thanks? 15/2/2008
Fuck that....I say hell yeeeaaazzzzzz
1 Comentários, 64 Visualizações,
2 Votos
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