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I'm just not Interested 7/12/2011
I get a number of emails, some i find very interesting and
others i don't...I have no problem with respectfully
declineing anyone if i don't feel there is a honest
attraction....But i have noticed that i get alot of rude
and tasteless emails as a reply, so my question is should
i just ignore those that i'm not interested in or do
i continue being repectful and letting them know that i'm
not ...
6 Comentários, 134 Visualizações,
11 Votos
,2.98 Pontuação
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always be both polite and firm 2/12/2011
I have found that when I am not interested in someone that
being honest is best, you should try to be polite but firm,
that way it spares hard feelings and embarasment for them.
the honesty should be appreciated.their feelings may
be a little hurt, but they will respect you for being honest.
0 Comentários, 11 Visualizações,
1 Votos
,3.70 Pontuação
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I always say NO when... 11/11/2011
I get a message that is completely idiotic. I will not even
give anybody a second if they message me and the first thing
they say is "let me suck you". I like to talk to
people and see who they are, what they are about!
4 Comentários, 98 Visualizações,
11 Votos
,6.35 Pontuação
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Drinking 26/10/2011
Do you find it hard to just tell people that you don't
drink? Every time I do, people look at me funny...
0 Comentários, 22 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,3.25 Pontuação
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Rejected because I wear condoms 25/10/2011
I recently met an attractive woman on this site. We talked
for a little bit, then talked about meeting up. She asked
me if I was fine with having sex without using condoms. At
first I thought it was a joke, but she was very serious. I
politely declined. Everyone be smart and be safe theres
a lot of nasty things out there that can alter your life forever.
2 Comentários, 67 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,4.41 Pontuação
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Saying no is ok 20/10/2011
Too often there is no response to an email or IM. And I understand
that people are very rude. Remember that it is the choice
of the person to say yes or no and calling them names because
there is a negative response to your email is not the answer.
0 Comentários, 10 Visualizações,
0 Votos
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Be courtious !! 14/10/2011
Too often no one answers an inquiry and that leaves a large
void. It doesnt take a lot of time to simply say, thank you
for asking but no thank you. It is just a nice courtesy.
3 Comentários, 55 Visualizações,
5 Votos
,1.84 Pontuação
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Where are the manners? 29/9/2011
I get it...not everyone is gonna be compatible and there
is some amount of pure physical attraction that needs to
go on for a connection to happen. BUT if there isn't,
why can't people just say "thanks, nice meeting
you, but i'm not interested".
Dunno, seems pretty simple and much nicer than ending the
conversation, never to hear from them again - message is
the same, but just a more ...
5 Comentários, 93 Visualizações,
7 Votos
,4.31 Pontuação
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Thanks but no thanks 22/9/2011
Just keep right on walking Just keep right on walking
Dont dilly-dally, come right home I dont see why I must go home When in the streets the niceties Come pouring out and over me Its three oclock and here they come So many that my eyes are numb Familiar faces each and all But I've been ordered not to stall Thanks but no thanks, anywa I know that youre all OK, but My orders come from ...
0 Comentários, 15 Visualizações,
0 Votos
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How 10/9/2011
What would be the easiest way to say No Thanks. Always wonder
what the other person may feel.
0 Comentários, 10 Visualizações,
1 Votos
,2.40 Pontuação
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no means no 30/8/2011
i'm 22..am i old fashioned to think that everyone should
understand that NO MEANS NO?
2 Comentários, 110 Visualizações,
20 Votos
,4.53 Pontuação
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no means no 16/8/2011
why cant some people just understand no means no, and respect
the other person view.
0 Comentários, 29 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,3.43 Pontuação
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No means no 4/8/2011
When you want something and the other person doesn't
feel the same. Stop if they don't want nothing to do
with it. Or you are a duece bag and need help.
0 Comentários, 5 Visualizações,
1 Votos
,5.00 Pontuação
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The right thing 16/7/2011
So man games...if your not interested, a simply "no
thanks" is the right and decent thing to do...
0 Comentários, 66 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,2.47 Pontuação
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BBW 13/7/2011
I have recently met a few ladies who have seem to have outgrown
their profile pics, and it made me feel a little................
awkward! I have no problem with women with a little weight
on them, but when they show up waaayyy bigger than you expect,
then it's a problem for me. Anyone agree?
2 Comentários, 72 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,3.63 Pontuação
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Best way to meet a girl on here 19/6/2011
I have met women in the past for dates and right away I know
I am not interested. I would hate to have a girl come to my
house for the first time and not want to have sex with her
from this site. I would feel guilty and give it to her anyway.
What is the best way to figure out if this girl is worthy?
Do you meet them somewhere real quick in public and make
sure the sexual connection is there??
9 Comentários, 169 Visualizações,
15 Votos
,2.82 Pontuação
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How many have sad "NO THANKS" 17/6/2011
Does it knock you confidence when a woman or man says "NO"
to sex?
3 Comentários, 79 Visualizações,
3 Votos
,2.94 Pontuação
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no thanks 17/6/2011
i dont know why, but saying no thanks is hard for me. should
be the easiest thing. when i want to say no, i just ignore
the comment or question that was thrown at me. it shouldnt
have to be that way, but thats just the way it is. im sure not
all people are like this, but i am, and im sure im not alone
0 Comentários, 2 Visualizações,
0 Votos
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How to Say No in the Bedroom 2/6/2011
How To Say No To...
...the nice guy-nice, but not your type-who asks you on
a date:
1 "I'm sorry, I can't." If you're
feeling weak, you can add, "I'm seeing someone."
If you have no spine whatsoever, you can start with "I'm
very flattered, but..."
...your partner, who's suggesting a far-out sexual
act:
2 Look appalled and shriek, "What is wrong with ...
0 Comentários, 52 Visualizações,
6 Votos
,4.22 Pontuação
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Saying No Thanks 31/5/2011
Why do a lot of men get upset and become very rude when you
decline their offer. Just because a woman is on here does
not mean she is desperate, and one who jumps in bed with every
offer on here.
21 Comentários, 233 Visualizações,
29 Votos
,5.55 Pontuação
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How to say "No" 31/5/2011
Which do you think is better beating around the bush or like
removing ripping off a bandaide
0 Comentários, 26 Visualizações,
1 Votos
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Almost scammed! 18/5/2011
I must start with how Trair.Net is a Terrific site and how quick
and helpful they were on acting with my problem.
It started with a member leaving a wink I checked out his
page and Who-ow he was cute. I left a wink and hot listed him now we have all done that Yes!
This is were it begins the emails back and forth nothing
vulgar or offensive, just innocent emails.
After a few ...
1 Comentários, 245 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,5.10 Pontuação
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If she says no, respect it! 8/5/2011
dont ever get mad because she said no, you dont know what
her day was, what her life has been lately. just be respectful
and say "ok" be a gentlemen, not a d-bag.
4 Comentários, 60 Visualizações,
13 Votos
,6.00 Pontuação
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no 6/5/2011
Do anyone understand no n e more?
5 Comentários, 64 Visualizações,
6 Votos
,4.22 Pontuação
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Why does she get mad 12/4/2011
Eveytime i tell he ri don't want to have sex she gets
upset
5 Comentários, 84 Visualizações,
4 Votos
,1.30 Pontuação
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Condom use 8/4/2011
i have been rejected a couple of times because i want to wear
condoms all the time...why do women turn me away because
i am concerned about my health, not to mention i might have
no idea if they are 100% clean or not?
6 Comentários, 197 Visualizações,
13 Votos
,4.32 Pontuação
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Sometimes you just have to say "NO" 3/4/2011
If there is just no attraction, yeah sometimes you just
have to take one for your own team, and say thank you, but
I don't want another. But if she is cross-eyed, dresses
like she was straight out of the forties, has a hunch back
and is overweight, then pay for the dinner, walk her to her
car and just apologize you're just not turned on by
her. Don't cave because she offers you oral sex, and
when ...
2 Comentários, 46 Visualizações,
5 Votos
,2.16 Pontuação
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Best way 29/3/2011
What is your preferred way to tell someone you are not interested?
Does it get any easier over time? Some people make it simple
by being assholes but it's tough when nice people have
to be told no.
5 Comentários, 101 Visualizações,
10 Votos
,2.99 Pontuação
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What do you do? 9/3/2011
Say you have been chatting and finally meet, the pics she
sent are awesome and you are really looking forward to it.
When she shows, you find out the pics are old and she doesn't
look anything like that now....how do you say thanks, but,
NO THANKS!
8 Comentários, 71 Visualizações,
7 Votos
,2.28 Pontuação
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The Joys of Artfull Rejection....... 18/2/2011
1.) Man: "Haven't we met before?" Woman:
"Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic."
2.) In the department of "nice turn downs" there's
this one: I'll have to think about that, thinking makes
me tired, when I'm tired I want to sleep, not make love,
so let's not, okay?
3.) Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?" Woman:
"Well, I don't know. Will two people fit under
a rock?" ...
2 Comentários, 81 Visualizações,
8 Votos
,5.33 Pontuação
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